The Power of One Chance “Like”

I have always believed that things happen for a reason, and not to discount anything that crosses my path. This isn’t based on so much as a whisper in God, religion, divine intervention, or the will of any sentient almighty. To be honest; if any of those things clouded or narrowed my open mind, I’m fairly certain these “chances” would evaporate behind a cloud of blind faith. I spend my life pondering wonders, gazing into the night sky, listening to the wind, sharing ideas, learning from others, and every so often stumbling upon a moment that changes the direction of my life. Since starting this blog, wordpress has introduced me to remarkably intelligent people; people who may hold different views than mine, people I look forward to reading, discussing, and sharing thoughts with. I approach it as I approach my life – with an open mind and heart.

A few days ago, a chance “like” on one of my posts by wordpresser –ΒΒ changed lives. As soon as I read “buffalotompeabody” something told me my path had just been crossed. Obviously anyone called buffalotompeabody plastered an instant smile on my face; there was more – my “lucky feeling” as it has come to be known in my household, had goosebumps erupting on my arms, and every hair on the back of my neck standing at attention.

I couldn’t get to his “About” page fast enough. I read eagerly, and suddenly – there it was – this man is blind. Hardly able to contain myself while hoping this person would understand; I asked for his help. My mother is blind; it’s been at least 10 years since she could read any print.The CNIB (Canadian National Institute for the Blind) sends her spoken DVD’s of books and magazines, has given her a white cane, free bus pass, sold her a $700 computer program, and she was considering dropping $3000 on some sort of screen magnifier device. We knew in our hearts it would be about as much help as the “Zoom text” program – in other words, beyond something she could practically use the way she wanted. As buffalotompeabody put it “having first to wrestle an elephant to the floor takes the fun out of it”. I’m getting ahead of myself.

buffalotompeabody responded within a few hours, answering my burning question – how was he able to do something that’s eluded my mother for years? Still unable to grasp how he could reply at length; a task that my mother couldn’t do if her life depended on it,I read on. His answer blew me away; enter the Android phone. It seems Google has a soft spot for low vision and blind people. Most of their Android phones come with TTS (talk to speech) programs pre installed, and simply need to be enabled. He explained about low vision apps, the feature Androids have of allowing text to be made huge, and youtube videos showing how to use different apps. He told me he hadn’t opened his lap top in a year and a half.

I was like a kid on Christmas morning as I called my mother with the news. The excitement and hope I heard in her voice reminded me of who she was before blindness crippled her with depression. She believed, actually believed she might once again use her voice, and mind to connect with the world. She didn’t say so but I knew she dared to embrace the possibility of writing again. I copied and emailed buffalotompeabody’s comments to my sister who lives in the same city as my mother. That was yesterday. By this afternoon they had gone to a cell phone store; with copied emails in hand the clerk had her a phone meeting all the requirements, enabled the TTS, and set the everything to “huge”. Tomorrow they will download apps, and I expect by the weekend I’ll be getting emails from her.

In all our visits to the CNIB, eye specialists, and computer geeks; not once has this simple solution been suggested. We’ve watched helplessly as she slipped further into despair; then a single chance “like” turns all our lives around. Better still it’s poised to change even more lives. While telling this story to a friend today I learned she knew of someone in a similar situation. Again I forwarded buffalotompeabody’s comments, setting another life changing moment in motion.

Thank you buffalotompeabody for crossing my path – your fortitude and patience inspire me beyond words. In 24 short hours you’ve managed to accomplish something we’d nearly given up on. You set something so powerful in motion, our world will forever be changed.

For anyone who knows someone this might help – go to buffalotompeabody’s “About” page and read the comments he sent me.


13 thoughts on “The Power of One Chance “Like”

  1. I hope that voice to text works I had a android phone and now a windows phone and neither one understood what I was saying. It could be because I wear dentures to.

    • Thanks for the like and comment πŸ™‚ All I know is that this man has less vision than my mother, took the time to explain something we’ve never even thought of, and pointed us in a direction of hope for the first time in ages.Knowing what I do about her struggles and seeing what buffalotompeabody is capable of brings tears of joy to my eyes.

    • You have no idea how much this could change her life. For an artist and writer to lose their ability to communicate is a death sentence. For the first time in years she hangs on to a ray of light.

  2. This post brought tears to my eyes. I know how much your mother has been an inspiration to you and assumed that she was of like mind and probably understood you more than anyone else. To not be able to express yourself…too sad to even think about. How exciting it would be to have her voice again. Watch out world! I am so happy for you and your mother…best of luck!

    • Thank you so much πŸ™‚ She is the reason I am who I am, and view the world with wide open eyes. To watch her fade away simply because blindness stole her “voice” along with her vision, broke my heart.

  3. I passed on the information to my friend in Winnipeg…Apparently the woman I was talking about has all sorts of gadgets that enable her to read…My friend was so happy that this has helped your mother!!! πŸ™‚ Thank you again!!

  4. I am deeply touched by your kind words. Moreover, I am thrilled that your mother will soon be connected!
    I would also like to say, all thanks should go to The developers of TTS For making all of this possible. I believe that isolation is the enemy of all people with disabilities. It is an enemy that Finds Easy access into a disabled persons life. It isn’t that people don’t care, They don’t know how to help. Helen Keller’s philosophy says it best- We can make our way in the sighted World, just let us.
    My mobility trainer, Many years ago said; ” You can do anything… And will probably do everything… Attitude is everything And will conquer anything!” Her name is Lois Gregory. I haven’t seen her in years but I thank Her everyday. She was my Miracle worker. Oddly enough, My miracle took place in Tuscumbia, Alabama The birthplace of Helen Keller! It has been my goal To pass on that ” Can do” Spirit of Helen Keller and Lois Gregory.
    I don’t feel As if I deserve any thank you’s For passing along What I have learned To Others. We are all in this together. Together we can minimize frustration and isolation.
    I am thankful for discovering New friends, Like you and your wonderful family. I am NOT isolated… What a glorious feeling! Pass it on!

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